Dear TAT Friends,
Did you know that some people say that one in eight pregnancies starts as a twin pregnancy? There’s been more evidence of what goes on because of ultrasound technology during pregnancy: a pregnancy can start off with twins and then one baby dies. It’s called the Vanishing Twin Syndrome. On and off throughout my life, I’ve had feelings that when my mom was pregnant with me, I had a twin who died.
Dear TAT Friends,
Someone was advertising a sex webinar and I thought, "I don’t know them or what this will be like. Why would I want to do a sex webinar with them?" Then I realized that you don’t know what I’m offering in the TAT for Better Sex webinar and could be thinking something like that.
So here’s what’s cool about what I’m offering:
Dear TAT Friends,
You know how when you’re feeling really happy and good inside, the whole world looks brighter and lots of people smile to see you? I’d love more of that for us — that’s what the Drenched in Love webinar is for.
At the start of doing a big "pot" of TAT stuff, I usually feel stuck and grumpy. Thoughts like "hmmph, this can never change…it’s how I’ve always been" come up. Almost always, after about five minutes into doing TAT, I’m grinning: it feels like an irresistible fountain of happiness is pouring up through me and life feels good. And stuff that gets cleared up has stayed cleared up — life keeps getting better.
Dear TAT Friends,
Just home from the ACEP (Association for Comprehensive Energy Psychology) Conference. It was lots of fun. These are a warm, lively group of people from various professions worldwide who are sharing healing approaches and working toward the mainstream acceptance of these alternative approaches to health. To learn more, check out energypsych.org , the ACEP website. There were lots of interesting speakers and you can get copies of the conference talks on DVD at the website.
Our TAT for Better Sex webinar will be here soon. Someone asked if they can get a discount for their partner to join them in the webinar and we thought that sounded like a great idea. If you’d like to have your partner or spouse join in, just write to Customer Service after you register and let them know you’d like the coupon code for your partner to register, too. Julie or Teri (our friendly Customer Service folks) will be happy to help you with that.
It’s been awhile since I’ve written. It’s good to be home and back in touch.
Does having a happier intimate relationship with better sex sound great to you? Yes? Okay then! I have a great new webinar just for you. Don’t worry - you don’t actually have to say anything personal or have anyone see you via webcam for this to work.
We’ll do TAT to clear up limiting beliefs, negativity and past incidents involving parents, family, friends, society, media, religion, spirituality and everywhere else. Check out the subjects in our 9-session series:
Here’s a story from a friend that I really enjoyed. I thought you’d like it, too. Enjoy.
Guilt. GUILT! And lots of it! I had been caught in an affair. I separated from my husband and moved out (while we lived abroad). Not wanting to disrupt the children’s lives (17, 16 and 10), any more than a devasting separation would do, I left them in their home, with the belief that they would spend equal time with both their father and me. OK, naive, perhaps, as well.
My Dear Friends,
Hope this finds you enjoying your day or night. There’s one really tall palm tree about a street down — clear skies over L.A. today. The blue Pacific is filling my feelings with happiness and I’m sending those feelings to you.
We’ve been doing a Practicing Presence Webinar for the first time with folks in our certification program and it’s going great. I didn’t know how it would be to see people (six at a time on our computer screens) as we worked together, wondered how hard the technology would be to deal with (I’m not a digital native). It’s turned out to be really easy and incredibly fun - I feel like everyone is in my home with me and I’m at their place.
Yesterday, looking alternately out the window (gorgeous view across half a mile of trees and homes to the blue Pacific) and at my computer as I worked, I heard two creaks in the floor behind me. I turned to look. There was nothing there. I suspected it might be my mom walking through the living room. (In case you haven’t read newsletters from earlier this year, my mom died at the end of January. You can read more here .)
Later in the afternoon, I was chatting on the phone and heard those same creaks. "Maybe it was from the attic", I mused to myself…we’d heard some critters up there recently. But then I realized that I wouldn’t be hearing all the way to downstairs from the attic and besides, it was the floorboards I heard. Our family has lived in this house since 1963 and I have never heard squeaking floorboards when someone wasn’t walking on them.
A quick reminder if you get this in time. I’m leading a free webinar tonight at 6:00 pm PST on Free Yourself of What’s in the Way of Presenting Your Beautiful Self and Your Unique Offering to the World .
It’s filling up fast, so I hope you can still squeeze in. Just go here to register.
I was just driving home from the local classy deli with some soup and crackers for dinner and started thinking about something that is really not obvious about TAT and our community. Unless you’re in “TATland”, you can’t know it from the outside.
I just realized tonight that my connection with my mom has been embodied by being in this house with her. Our family has lived in this house since I was 11 and I was the trustee for the family trust, so I took care of things like legal affairs, paying bills, and going through the mail with my mom. It’s only dawned on me tonight that having that relationship winding down now is stressful. So…you can believe that by the time you get this newsletter, I’ll have done TAT about it.
During the teleseminar on grief that we just finished, missing my mom didn’t come up. What came up was missing my dad, who died over 14 years ago. There was some distress that happened the last time I saw him before he died, and I had never cleared it.