Dear TAT Friends,

Did you know that some people say that one in eight pregnancies starts as a twin pregnancy? There’s been more evidence of what goes on because of ultrasound technology during pregnancy:   a pregnancy can start off with twins and then one baby dies. It’s called the Vanishing Twin Syndrome. On and off throughout my life, I’ve had feelings that when my mom was pregnant with me, I had a twin who died.

The other morning, I was holding a brush and decided to use both hands. There was a real sense of lack of communication and coordination there, so I did a little TAT on the spot. Somehow, I wondered to myself, "Is there more than one being related to this (my) body?" I felt the answer: "Yes!" Eeks! I was shocked. Don’t ask me where that question came from - it just dropped in.

Then I had the feeling that it was the twin who’d died and who was somehow involved with the left side of my body and I was somehow more involved with the right side. (Yep, sounds a little weird - I almost didn’t want to have come across this.) Just my usual disclaimer here - maybe I made this all up. I can only say that I felt what I felt, saw what I saw and heard within myself what I heard.

So, I did TAT on behalf of my twin. I felt that she’d been in a long gestation sort of sleep state and had been with me since before my birth. It felt like she woke up out of that dream-like state and started relating to me as a loving friend, no longer attached. When I think of my twin now, I feel loving support and friendship.

The next day, I found myself sorting beans with my left hand. Don’t think I’ve ever done anything like that with my left hand before. A sense of a cloud over the left half of my body is gone and there’s a feeling of integration and clarity between the two sides of my body.

If you suspect that this might be true for you, or you simply have a part of your body that doesn’t feel as clear and present as the rest, I’ll be doing a webinar on Feeling Whole and Integrated on Friday, July 23 and would love to share this part of the journey to wholeness with you.

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This week has been wild - feels like life has so sped up and it’s made feelings of pressure inside that are really not my usual. People kept asking me this week how I was doing with clearing out my mom’s house and, since the webinar we did on Moving On, that hasn’t been the thing that’s been driving me crazy - it’s just been this speed and pressure inside. Yow!

I’d been feeling a tremendous pressure at my back near my heart. I did TAT yesterday and later made an intent to love and be loved that blossomed into feelings like silent fireworks of love and intimacy.

Our TAT for Better Sex webinar combines clearing up whatever’s the most stressful thing going on for you right now along with clearing the way for love and intimacy. Good stuff.

Love and warm wishes,
Tapas

P.S.  Remember - there’s just over a week left to sign up for the first session of the TAT for Better S ex webinar.

To register for Feeling Whole and Integrated , just click here .

Dear TAT Friends,

Someone was advertising a sex webinar and I thought, "I don’t know them or what this will be like. Why would I want to do a sex webinar with them?" Then I realized that you don’t know what I’m offering in the TAT for Better Sex webinar and could be thinking something like that.

So here’s what’s cool about what I’m offering:

You don’t have to be seen, your voice doesn’t have to be heard. You can write in to a totally anonymous page we’ve set up to share what you want to clear up with TAT each session. (You get the link when you register.) It will be read to the group and no one will know who wrote it.

This webinar series is very much about removing what’s in the way of being really close with someone. What our parents told us, what we learned from TV, and past relationship troubles can easily disappear for good.

The subjects of each webinar (like "men", for instance) are starting places for stirring up expectations, memories, what our mothers told us, etc. (Ending up with peaceful, open feelings and less mind chatter is typical — real nice in close relationships.)
You can see a list of the subjects here . Sign up for all of them, or for the ones you’re particularly interested in.

There’s no thinking, no long stories. We each notice what’s in the way of being who we are, connecting in love and then do TAT to clear it up.

Simple, respectful and powerful.

Join our first webinar or the entire series here .

I’d like everyone to be happy, loved and fulfilled, and I know, from past experience, that this webinar has a real good chance of supporting everyone who attends in having loads more of all that.

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Did you know that sometimes, just doing TAT with one thought for about a minute and then it’s opposite thought for another minute can clear it up? It’s worth a try. Some examples to give you the idea:

The thought: "My past experiences will continue to keep me stuck in how I’m feeling forever. "

It’s opposite: "It’s not true that my past experiences will continue to keep me stuck in how I’m feeling forever. "

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The thought: "This is too much part of me to change. "

It’s opposite: "It’s possible this could change. "

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The thought: "Loving, close relationships aren’t possible for me. "

It’s opposite: "Loving, close relationships are possible for me. "

Love,
Tapas

P.S. You can just try one of these webinar sessions and see if you like it. You have until July 18 to register in time for the first session.