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Archive for the ‘Limiting Beliefs’ Category

TAT for Better Sex

Friday, July 2nd, 2010

Dear TAT Friends,

Someone was advertising a sex webinar and I thought, "I don’t know them or what this will be like. Why would I want to do a sex webinar with them?" Then I realized that you don’t know what I’m offering in the TAT for Better Sex webinar and could be thinking something like that.

So here’s what’s cool about what I’m offering:

  1. You don’t have to be seen, your voice doesn’t have to be heard. You can write in to a totally anonymous page we’ve set up to share what you want to clear up with TAT each session. (You get the link when you register.) It will be read to the group and no one will know who wrote it.
  2. This webinar series is very much about removing what’s in the way of being really close with someone. What our parents told us, what we learned from TV, and past relationship troubles can easily disappear for good.
  3. The subjects of each webinar (like "men", for instance) are starting places for stirring up expectations, memories, what our mothers told us, etc. (Ending up with peaceful, open feelings and less mind chatter is typical — real nice in close relationships.)
    You can see a list of the subjects here . Sign up for all of them, or for the ones you’re particularly interested in.
  4. There’s no thinking, no long stories. We each notice what’s in the way of being who we are, connecting in love and then do TAT to clear it up.

Simple, respectful and powerful.

Join our first webinar or the entire series here .

I’d like everyone to be happy, loved and fulfilled, and I know, from past experience, that this webinar has a real good chance of supporting everyone who attends in having loads more of all that.


Did you know that sometimes, just doing TAT with one thought for about a minute and then it’s opposite thought for another minute can clear it up? It’s worth a try. Some examples to give you the idea:

The thought: "My past experiences will continue to keep me stuck in how I’m feeling forever. "

It’s opposite: "It’s not true that my past experiences will continue to keep me stuck in how I’m feeling forever. "

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The thought: "This is too much part of me to change. "

It’s opposite: "It’s possible this could change. "

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The thought: "Loving, close relationships aren’t possible for me. "

It’s opposite: "Loving, close relationships are possible for me. "

Love,
Tapas

P.S. You can just try one of these webinar sessions and see if you like it. You have until July 18 to register in time for the first session.


Drenched in Love; “I Feel Happy and at Ease”

Saturday, June 26th, 2010

Dear TAT Friends,

You know how when you’re feeling really happy and good inside, the whole world looks brighter and lots of people smile to see you? I’d love more of that for us — that’s what the Drenched in Love webinar is for.

At the start of doing a big "pot" of TAT stuff, I usually feel stuck and grumpy. Thoughts like "hmmph, this can never change…it’s how I’ve always been" come up. Almost always, after about five minutes into doing TAT, I’m grinning: it feels like an irresistible fountain of happiness is pouring up through me and life feels good. And stuff that gets cleared up has stayed cleared up — life keeps getting better.

The webinar will help us identify some stuff in the way of being drenched in love and then we’ll do TAT on it together. There’s still time to join me — it’s this Monday. Click here to register. Registration closes Monday at 9:00am Eastern (New York time).

Uh, this might sound obvious, but…I love feeling love! I’m happy thinking about doing this webinar together because I expect we’ll be feeling more love. TAT is like a mother with an endless supply of jewelry who keeps giving me the most gorgeous, sparkling pieces with her love and warm wishes.


My mom’s livingroom has about 20 boxes ready to go for my family’s visit Sunday to go through all her things and take what we want. I’m so at ease with the whole process. Thanks to everyone who joined me for the Closing Up a Home and Moving On webinar — you helped me feel better. (We’re working right now on making it available as a download for you and will let you know when it’s ready.)


You can always do the TAT Pose for a minute or so each day with your attention on what you’d like your life to be right now. For example:

  • "I feel full of love right now."
  • "I enjoy myself and my life."
  • "I’m at ease and happy."

The way to be while you’re in the TAT Pose is relaxed and open to whatever happens. Enjoy!

Love and warm wishes,

Tapas


Truly Happy Intimate Relationships; Newest TAT Professionals; Hadn’t Heard From Her Son in 10 Years

Wednesday, June 9th, 2010

Dear TAT Friends,

Just home from the ACEP (Association for Comprehensive Energy Psychology) Conference. It was lots of fun. These are a warm, lively group of people from various professions worldwide who are sharing healing approaches and working toward the mainstream acceptance of these alternative approaches to health. To learn more, check out energypsych.org , the ACEP website. There were lots of interesting speakers and you can get copies of the conference talks on DVD at the website.

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Our TAT for Better Sex webinar will be here soon. Someone asked if they can get a discount for their partner to join them in the webinar and we thought that sounded like a great idea. If you’d like to have your partner or spouse join in, just write to Customer Service after you register and let them know you’d like the coupon code for your partner to register, too. Julie or Teri (our friendly Customer Service folks) will be happy to help you with that.

Just picture how nice it would feel to be with someone you love and not have past, unresolved emotions and beliefs showing up. Imagine being with the person you love and feeling close and happy in the moment, with no mind junk from past relationships chattering at you, distracting you from enjoying the precious moment you’re in. That’s the direction of our upcoming webinar series.

Have thoughts like any of these?:

    • Great relationships might happen for other people, but it could never happen for me.
    • I’ve tried and I don’t have the heart to try again.
    • A webinar can’t possibly make any difference for me.
    • I wouldn’t even know where to begin - there’s so much old stuff.
    • I’d be too embarrassed or self-conscious to participate.

Try doing the TAT Pose and putting your attention on all those thoughts - and any others that come up for you - for about a minute. Then do the Pose again for about a minute as you put your attention on:

    • It’s possible that I could have a wonderful intimate relationship and great sex.
    • It’s possible I could have the heart to try again.
    • A webinar could make a difference for me.
    • It would be easy to begin clearing up old stuff.
    • I could participate and only share what I want to.
    • …plus anything else you’d like to include

Just see what happens. I think you’ll be happy with the possibilities that open up. Even if you don’t join us for the webinar, you’ll have a great start toward a happier intimate life.

In this webinar, you’ll learn how you can use TAT to have more joy and fulfillment in intimate relationships and better sex. And remember, you don’t have to share anything personal with anyone in the class for it to work (I love that about TAT!). To join the webinar, just click here .

Just two days ago, one of my best long-time friends told me that I’m in one of only two relationships she knows where the people are really happy together. I’d like to share what I can with you about how to be in a really happy intimate relationship. That’s part of what we’ll be doing in the webinar. Even if you’re not in a close relationship right now, this webinar can easily help clear the way for that kind of relationship to manifest in your life. In fact…I have a new way of pumping up the rich, full feeling of the life you want being present right now. We’ll do that special new "manifestation magic" every time we get together in our webinars. I’d love all my friends to be extremely happy and fulfilled - and because you’re reading this, I consider you one of my friends. To join me in the webinar, just click here .


I’m very pleased to introduce you to our newest TAT Professionals. These individuals have attended workshops, done sessions on themselves, others, and with a Buddy, were observed leading TAT sessions by a TAT Trainer, and have discussed the Essential Points for TAT Professionals with the Trainer mentoring them through the certification program. Their Trainers have recommended them for certification.

Most of our Professionals are happy to work with you by phone or Skype, so I welcome you to look up our Professionals and see if there’s someone you’d like to work with, no matter where they live.

New Professionals, you have my warm best wishes, hearty congratulations and welcome to our group of wonderful TAT Professionals! Please join me in sending our best wishes to:

Mary Cahill-McGrath
Myriam Halimi
Kristin Holthuis
Else Baden-Jensen
May Johnstone
Christine Metawati
Cindy Patten
Valerie Piotrowski
Beth Rontal
Maya Safarti
Carol Suter
Lois Weber

Just click on each Professional’s name to read more about them.

Here is a story from Kristin Holthuis, one of our newest Professionals:


One of my very first TAT sessions was working with a lady on her anger and grief related to not having seen her son for about ten years. He was taken abroad when he was about 18 years old by a close family member, and she hadn’t heard anything from him ever since. She had felt like a bad mother (what a kind of mother is left by her child, without a word even after for 10 years?) and didn’t want to see the part of her family who had contributed to her son leaving her, and she didn’t want to see them ever again.

During the session a lot of different emotions passed by (anger, resentment, shame, grief), and she was even ready to forgive her family and her son at the end, feeling so much more peaceful; her face was glowing!

And… I was so impressed when I saw her again several weeks later, when she almost jumped on me with a big hug, telling that 3 days after the session her son had called her, wanting to visit her, asking for forgiveness and wanting to catch up with her again.

I cannot imagine that the session we did together wouldn’t have had anything to do with it…

TAT is still my favorite tool when dealing with complex situations where a lot of different emotions and levels are part of the issue!

And thanks to you all for inspiring me by sharing your experiences! Blessings to all of you!

Kristin


TAT stories give my heart so much happiness. Thanks for sharing this, Kristin!

If you’d like to share your TAT story or stories, I’d love to hear them and pass them along. Just click here to send your story to me.

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On this Thursday, June 10 at 1:00pm PDT, I’ll lead us in a TAT teleconference for the benefit of our planet - animals, plants, people and Mother Earth Herself related to the oil spill. It’s free and will last about 30 minutes. To join in on the call, click here .

Love and warm wishes,
Tapas

P.S. To register for the upcoming webinars, just click on the title(s) you’re interested in:



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